How come my avatar won't stay put??  What is the big deal here?  Everytime I get on here, my avatar just disappears. I've cleared my cache, history, cookies, you name it.  Sometimes it's there. And sometimes it's not, for no reason.  What gives!

With all those legs, it's probably wandered off somewhere. Seriously, just do a Ctl/F5 and it will show up again. Mine did the same thing for a while.

once you change avatar you have to refresh the page few times so you can see it

Hmm.. okay, will keep an eye on it