I've read many discussions regarding these. Phantom 4 is lighter, Inspire 1 takes longer to setup but yet more stable.
Inspire 1 is a bit more expensive, well alot more but i feel if im gonna spend so much money on a drone, i want to spend it right the first time around

Im mainly gonna use it for when im on trips, especially in Asia getting shots of wakeboarding and other activities while on holiday. Its not for professional use and i need to be fairly fast and easy to launch. Is the Phantom 4 the drone to buy i guess?

"Is the Phantom 4 the drone to buy i guess?"
Or maybe one of the P3s is.

If you are wanting to have a drone for travel, look closely at how big (and heavy and expensive) a suitable case for the Inspire is.  (it's huge)
Portability is a big negative for the Inspire.
There isn't much that you can do with an inspire that you can't do with a  P3 or P4.